If you appear confident in your approach and be direct with your intentions you’ll have no problem picking up girls. Chatting up girls can be the most nerve racking experiences imaginable. Confidence is largely perceived non verbally, so it’s important you communicate this through your body language and voice tonality. It will only make a girl anxious and wanting to end the conversation. Whether you’re meeting a girl or going in for the kiss, YOU have to be the one pulling the trigger. You must be bold and prepared to put your neck on the line for women.
And with this you’ve got to expect to be rejected from time to time. But it’s how you handle rejection that will define your success with picking up women.
You need the reassurance a girl likes you before lunging in for the kiss. It’s not cool to ask a girl “Is it OK if I kiss you? Instead, learn to be observationally aware of the situation, pick up on the cues and know the right time to smoothly go in for the kiss.
Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.If you meet a girl at 8.50am in Starbucks on your morning commute to work, you’d settle for a quick number exchange.So it’s polite to start with “excuse me” to avoid alarming them. You’ve just met the girl so avoid asking serious questions like, “What do you do for work? Similarly to the opening line, keep your initial conversation simple and situational.For example if you’re talking to a girl at the train station, ask where she’s heading today. Laughter is the way to a woman’s heart, so if you can banter and joke around she’ll be extremely receptive to the idea of meeting up with you again. ” and she replies with “Brighton” (a seaside town in the UK), you could reply with something like “What to sunbathe?So if a girl asks what you do for work, reply with “I was put on this planet to find you, job done”. Your honesty will show you have a backbone and are fearless in the face of rejection.
A combination of tongue-and-cheek humour with self-depricating humour is a winning mix. If you don’t tell her you’re sexually interested, she’ll start to wonder why you’re talking to her in the first place.If you can bounce back from your failures, learn from your mistakes and keep practicing, you’ll slowly become desensitized to the fear of rejection and become unstoppable with women.OK, so those are the five core concepts of whats involved. They’re borderline sleazy and a girl will instantly know your intentions.Or worse, she’ll assume you just want to be friends. Women want a man who stands up for what he believes in.If you don’t agree with what she says, challenge her. Think of something she wouldn’t normally expect a guy to acknowledge about her. So rather than say something generic like “You’re gorgeous” instead say, “You have a really nice smile” or “I like your nose piercing…it suits you…they don’t on most girls”.As obvious as some may seem, it’s easy to forget when you’re in the moment: But if a girl’s investment in the conversation is low – she’s not laughing at your jokes or giving you her full attention, then it’s probably best to end the conversation and walk away. It’s better to cut the conversation short than drag it out. Say “It was great bumping into you, but I have to get going…. it’d be cool to meet up again sometime” Never leave the interaction empty handed.