Meeting people at the gym has a few build in advantages.
First, any single man that you do meet at the gym is more interested than the average person in staying in shape.
Social media has opened wonderful doors of connection, so, don’t be afraid to look up a single high school friend and even consider attending your next reunion or class event.
You will find out soon enough if they are married or committed, so, for now, just be friendly and see what happens.Let single girlfriends know that you are actively looking for a relationship – maybe they know someone who is perfect for you!Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile! At this point, you’re just looking to make a friendly connection.There really are so many ways to meet men even after 60 – it simply takes a shift in mindset.
Do you agree that women should make the first move when meeting a man for the first time?
Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.
Also, a lifetime of love and loss has made many women distrustful and unwilling to get back into the dating game.
When you sit down, don’t immediately pull out your mobile phone or book. When you are out with a dog or young child, there is a natural and comfortable energy about you.
This weekend, grab your dog and visit your local park.
Do you think we have forgotten the Art of Flirting?